Now, ‘with’ is to the point, with should come garlanded and with fresh coat of paint. As soon as you start using with it presupposes commitment and stability. You can’t cook without with. It binds as much as the eggs. It smells of talc and has it’s hair pulled back. It watches over us. No wonder it’s spelled with that little frown.
Or with is a sign, a brand, a logo in itself. I carried with around quite a bit. Made sure everyone saw it. I was sure that you had yours too. But then why would we need two? Perhaps that was part the problem. I hogged the with.